eTopical Precious Finds
Entitlement, a superiority complex, arrogance, haughtiness, and a lack of empathy. All are warning signs of someone with narcissistic personality disorder (NPD). Although only 1% of the population is officially diagnosed with this disorder, researchers believe that far more go undiagnosed, forever altering family and relationship dynamics.
Narcissism completes the dark tetrad of disorders, joining the likes of sadism, machiavellianism, and psychopathy. Those with NPD often tear families apart to make themselves feel whole, exhibiting unhealthy and extreme levels of traits like poor communication, a lack of boundaries, control issues, and secret-keeping. Gaslighting, paying the victim and, blame-shifting are also common signs of NPD. These behaviors can lead to long-term effects on children and spouses, indicating that it may be time to plan an escape.
With the help of a family lawyer, victims of an NPD partner can get their affairs in order and prepare for a life separate from their damaging relationship. Once one has escaped, methods like distance and limited contact are important precautions to take, especially if law enforcement or authorities are involved.
While NPD is not curable, people can heal from the damaging effects of a narcissistic partner. Following a safe separation, there is hope for victims and resources available to support their journey.
